Welcoming Congregation Task Force

The Welcoming Congregation Program

In the 1980s and 90s, when the word “welcoming” became a code word for lesbian, gay, and bisexual people, the Unitarian Universalist Association launched a Welcoming Congregation Program to help us learn how to undo homophobia—and later, transphobia (prejudice against transgender people)—in our hearts and minds, our congregations, and our communities.

The requirements for recognition as a Welcoming Congregation are:

  1. Measurable achievements in the areas of education, congregational life, and community outreach, using the Welcoming Congregation Guidelines and Action Steps as a guide.
  2. A congregational vote in affirmation of being recognized by the Unitarian Universalist Association as a Welcoming Congregation.

In the spring of 2019, the First Parish Standing Committee convened a task force to begin the process of fulfilling the UUA requirements to become designated as a Welcoming Congregation.  The COVID 19 pandemic slowed but did not stop our efforts.

March 17, 2019 – Rev. Keith Kron Presents After Church Program – “Beyond Categorical Thinking”

September 2019 – First Parish began offering the OWL curriculum in our Church School program for the first time

October 24, 2019 – FPCW Book Group Discusses Becoming Nicole by Amy Ellis Nutt

February 9, 2020 – First Parish Welcomes Members of Greater Boston PFLAG for Presentation to the Congregation

March 1, 2020 – Rev. Paul Langston-Daley Presents After-Church LGBTQ 101 Forum

January 3, 2021 – First Parish adds the following message to its weekly Sunday worship bulletins: First Parish Church has long welcomed people with different perspectives, backgrounds and orientations. While we currently pursue formally becoming a Welcoming Congregation, we happily welcome all people as part of our 21st century community and church. 

May 7, 2021 – Peace Flag Movement Comes to Weston

Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world.
In fact, it is the only thing that ever has.
– Margaret Mead

The First Parish Welcoming Task Force is bringing the Peace Flag Movement to Weston. We hope that First Parish members and friends will pick up a flag from church and fly it as a symbol of equity and justice – for the earth and every culture, race, spirituality, gender, sexuality, ability and age. Starting Monday, May 10, pick up your flag in the vestibule outside the Church St. entrance to the Church Office (Outer door is never locked). First Parish will make a donation to the Peace Flag Movement; a donation is not required to get your flag, but if you’d like, you can leave a donation to support the future of the Peace Flag Project when you pick up your flag!

Let’s see what we can do to help spread this important message through Weston and beyond!

May 25, 2021 – Several First Parishioners participate in OUT MetroWest’s virtual training session “LBGTQ+ Basics and Beyond.” This course aims to give clergy, staff, and congregants tolls to be welcoming and inclusive neighbors, friends, and loved ones. Our Outreach Committee provides annual financial support to OUTMetroWeston.

June 13, 2021 – First Parish Church in Weston holds its first Pride-themed service and celebration.  

Some other resources you may find helpful:

https://www.uua.org/lgbtq

https://outmetrowest.org/our-programs-overview-faqs/

https://gbpflag.org/